Category archive for ‘LIFE’ rss

  • Become a Jew in 28 Easy Books: My Conversion Reading List

    Study is a central part of every decision to join the Jewish people. How central? How about 7,000 pages? Here is a list of the 28 books I read during the nine months of my conversion journey to become a Reform Jew.

  • Now how much would you pay?

    As I learned staying with friends during my nine months of near-homelessness last year, misery really doesn’t love company.

  • Reprising the Yankee Hotel Foxtrot

    I am officially a big, fat hypocrite. A big, fat hypocrite who’s moving back home…to Marina City.

  • The Kippah of Conversation

    Yes, I’m becoming a religious Reform Jew. Yes, I wear a kippah full-time. Yes, my last name is Doyle. Uh, can we talk about the weather now?

  • “…But one of the worst is commercialism.”

    In this second of two tardy Yuletide posts, I realize just how crass a secular Christmas can be, by spending my first one as an outsider looking in.

  • Oy to the World

    When a well-meaning friend asked me on Christmas Eve, “Is being at temple tonight hard for you?” they were surprised I said, “No.” I wasn’t surprised at all.

  • The Miracle of the Smoldering Carpet

    Lessons from my first-ever first night of Chanukah: check wooden matches for cracks; don’t use the match box to put out the carpet; …and be prepared to feel six-years-old all over again.

  • I, Akeelah

    So. My blog–and I–have joyed out lately. Not to mention Jewed out, compassioned out, and otherwise jumped for happy. And the lesson for me in all of that? That I don’t need to apologize for one sickeningly lovely moment of what, as it turns out, is the time of my life.

  • Fourteen Christmases and a Chanukiyah

    Living Jewishly obviously means spending the period from Thanksgiving Day to New Year’s Eve with a different emphasis. This year, I’ll leave my well-known tree fetish behind. But as I ponder all the adult Christmases I’ve kept, I’m realizing I won’t miss that holiday’s sense of joy and wonder…because I’m increasingly finding those feelings to be an everyday part of my new journey.

  • Maytag Man

    Owning household appliances? Normal. Naming household appliances? Pushing it. Feeling like a bad parent for overfilling the dishwasher or watching the Roomba crash into a wall? Me.